My Dad.....
Yesterday, July 23rd, 2010, I had the sweet experience to hold my Dad's hand, rub his forehead, and tell him that it's finally okay to let go and cross the veil. He fought it for many months, and his body was worn and tired, full of many pains. He showed us the true character of who he was, the caretaker, the patriarch, the leader of our family that he took full responsibility to care for each of us, and he needed to feel secure that we all would be ok, but especially his sweet wife. He wanted so much to care for her and see to her needs. I promise Daddy, we will!
I prayed for many months for the Lord to take him, his suffering was just too much. I hurt today, I miss him so already, I wasn't prepared for how much this hurts even when I know he is in a better place. My brother put it best on his facebook status:
Okay...now I am in tears. That sweet tribute from your brother really does sum it all up. What a great man who will be dearly missed.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Stacey for the pain you are feeling. I remember all too well the aching feeling I got when it hit me that my dad was really gone. It is very comforting though to know that they are free from that horrible pain that they had to endure. But it really SUCKS sometimes...even if you know they are in a better place.
I can't tell you how impressed I have been as I have heard of your love and devotion for both of your parents. The time spent with visits and tender loving care on their behalf. I am so glad you were able to be with him in his final hours. I am sure he loved and appreciated it too.
I can't explain in words the amount of love I feel for you and I feel very ashamed that I have let our friendship fade over the years. Oh how I wish I could turn back time. I do truly feel honored to have you as a friend. You are a wonderful example of Christ like love.
Oh yeah...I LOVE that picture of your mom and dad. It is AWESOME!
Hang in there Stac,
Love ya
Tanya
What a cute little note from your friend above! You sure have a lot of people who love you and are there for you. . . including us.
ReplyDeleteLove you!